Mental Health Therapy Group
Mindful Oregon Clinic

Dr. Shirin Yekekar
When most people hear the term eating disorder, they imagine teenagers struggling with body image or college students caught in cycles of dieting and restriction. But the reality is that eating disorders affect millions of adults, often silently and invisibly.
Eating Disorders in Adults: Causes, Warning Signs, Treatment, and the Path to Recovery
Introduction: Why Eating Disorders in Adults Are More Common Than You Think
When most people hear the term eating disorder, they imagine teenagers struggling with body image or college students caught in cycles of dieting and restriction. But the reality is that eating disorders affect millions of adults, often silently and invisibly. Whether they start in adolescence and continue into adulthood, or develop later in life due to trauma, stress, or life changes, these disorders are complex mental health conditions that go far beyond food.
For many adults, disordered eating is not just about weight or appearance. It’s a way of coping with anxiety, trauma, perfectionism, or a lack of control. It’s a deeply ingrained pattern of thinking and behaving that can feel impossible to break without help. But recovery is possible, and understanding how and why eating disorders develop is the first step toward healing.
What Exactly Is an Eating Disorder?
An eating disorder is a serious mental health condition that leads to unhealthy, harmful, or extreme behaviors around food, weight, and body image. These behaviors often cause significant physical, emotional, and social consequences, and they’re not a “choice” or a matter of willpower. Eating disorders are among the most deadly mental health conditions, second only to opioid addiction, which is why early recognition and treatment are critical.
The Most Common Types of Eating Disorders in Adults
Anorexia nervosa: Characterized by severe food restriction, intense fear of gaining weight, and a distorted body image.
Bulimia nervosa: Repeated cycles of binge eating followed by purging behaviors (vomiting, fasting, over-exercising, or using laxatives).
Binge eating disorder (BED): Recurrent episodes of uncontrollable eating, often followed by guilt or shame, without compensatory behaviors.
ARFID (Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder): Limited food intake due to fear, texture, or other sensory reasons, not necessarily tied to body image.
Other specified feeding or eating disorders (OSFED): Disordered eating behaviors that don’t fit neatly into one category but are still harmful and significant.
Eating disorders can exist on a spectrum from chronic dieting and obsessive calorie tracking to life-threatening starvation or purging. All forms deserve attention, compassion, and treatment.
Why Adults Develop Eating Disorders
While eating disorders often begin during adolescence, many people experience them for the first time as adults. In fact, research shows that more than 13% of adults will struggle with an eating disorder at some point in their lives. For some, the behaviors are a continuation of patterns formed years earlier. For others, they emerge in response to new pressures, trauma, or changes.
Common Root Causes in Adults
1. Emotional Regulation and Coping
Food is one of the most common coping mechanisms. Restricting or controlling food can create a false sense of control when life feels overwhelming. On the other hand, binge eating may provide temporary relief from anxiety, sadness, or loneliness.
2. Trauma and Past Experiences
Unresolved trauma, including childhood abuse, neglect, or relationship trauma, often manifests as disordered eating in adulthood. The body becomes a battlefield where unresolved emotions are played out.
3. Perfectionism and Control
Adults with high-achieving personalities or perfectionistic tendencies are at increased risk. Restricting food or maintaining a certain weight can become a way to feel successful or disciplined when other areas of life feel uncertain.
4. Body Image and Societal Pressure
Age, pregnancy, menopause, or simply living in a culture obsessed with thinness and appearance can all trigger body dissatisfaction. Many adults internalize harmful messages about what their body “should” look like, fueling disordered eating behaviors.
5. Life Transitions
Significant life changes such as divorce, job loss, parenthood, or health challenges can trigger feelings of insecurity, which may lead to restrictive or compulsive eating patterns.
Signs and Symptoms of Eating Disorders in Adults
Eating disorders can be challenging to recognize, especially in adults who may hide their behaviors or justify them as “healthy habits.” However, early intervention is key. Here are common warning signs to look for:
Behavioral Signs
Obsessive calorie counting or strict food rules
Frequent skipping of meals or avoidance of social events involving food
Binge eating episodes, often in secret
Purging behaviors (vomiting, misuse of laxatives, over-exercising)
Compulsive checking of weight or body shape
Rapid weight fluctuations
Emotional and Cognitive Signs
Preoccupation with weight, food, or appearance
Intense fear of gaining weight
Guilt, shame, or disgust after eating
Distorted body image (seeing oneself as “overweight” despite being underweight)
Low self-esteem, anxiety, or depression
Physical Signs
Dizziness or fainting
Gastrointestinal problems
Irregular menstruation or hormonal changes
Hair loss or brittle nails
Cold intolerance and low energy
Health Risks of Untreated Eating Disorders
Eating disorders affect nearly every system in the body. Without treatment, they can lead to severe, even life-threatening complications:
Cardiovascular issues: Irregular heartbeat, low blood pressure, heart failure
Digestive problems: Severe constipation, acid reflux, gastrointestinal damage
Hormonal imbalance: Fertility problems, disrupted menstrual cycles, thyroid dysfunction
Bone and muscle damage: Osteoporosis, muscle wasting
Mental health risks: Anxiety, depression, self-harm, and increased risk of suicide
The longer disordered eating behaviors persist, the more deeply they become ingrained, which is why early treatment makes a significant difference.
Treatment: How Adults Can Recover from Eating Disorders
Recovery is not only possible, it’s common. With the right treatment plan, many adults go on to rebuild a healthy relationship with food, body, and self. The most effective approaches are holistic, addressing the psychological, physical, and emotional components of the disorder.
1. Psychotherapy
Therapy is the cornerstone of eating disorder treatment. Evidence-based modalities like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and trauma-informed therapy help individuals challenge distorted thoughts, develop healthier coping skills, and heal emotional wounds.
2. Nutritional Counseling
Working with a registered dietitian helps restore balanced eating patterns, repair metabolism, and dismantle harmful food beliefs. Education about nutrition can rebuild trust in the body’s natural hunger and fullness cues.
3. Medical Monitoring
Because eating disorders affect physical health, ongoing medical care is often essential. Regular checkups help manage complications and ensure safety during the recovery process.
4. Group and Family Support
Peer support groups and family involvement can reduce isolation and provide motivation. Sharing experiences helps individuals realize they’re not alone and that recovery is possible.
Rebuilding a Healthy Relationship with Food and Body
Recovery is not about “perfect eating” or achieving a specific weight. It’s about healing your relationship with food and your body. This involves:
Learning to eat intuitively, listening to hunger and fullness cues
Reclaiming joy and social connection around food
Challenging harmful body image beliefs
Practicing self-compassion instead of self-criticism
Building coping strategies that don’t involve restriction or bingeing
This process takes time, but every step forward is a victory; with support, a full recovery is possible.
Final Thoughts: Help Is Closer Than You Think
If you’re an adult struggling with disordered eating, you are not alone, and you do not have to do this by yourself. Millions of people recover from eating disorders every year with proper support, treatment, and guidance.
At Mindful Oregon Clinic, our licensed therapists specialize in evidence-based treatment for eating disorders, trauma-informed care, and emotional healing. Whether you’re dealing with binge eating, bulimia, anorexia, or body image concerns, we provide compassionate, personalized care tailored to your needs. Together, we’ll help you rebuild a peaceful relationship with food and with yourself.
Reach out today to schedule a consultation and take the first step toward recovery. Healing is possible, and your journey can start right now.