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When the Body Holds the Story: Understanding Somatic Pain and the Mind-Body Connection

Dr. Shirin Yekekar

Sep 7, 2025

sometimes pain doesn't originate from a physical source at all. Instead, it's the body's way of carrying emotions that are too heavy for the mind to hold. This is what's known as somatic pain ...

Most of us are taught to think of pain as something that starts in the body, a pulled muscle, a pinched nerve, or an injury we can point to. However, sometimes pain doesn't originate from a physical source at all. Instead, it's the body's way of carrying emotions that are too heavy for the mind to hold.

This is what's known as somatic pain, real physical discomfort that's deeply linked to our emotional and psychological well-being. It's one of the most common ways our bodies communicate with us, and when we learn to understand it, healing can begin on a much deeper level.

 

What Is Somatic Pain?

Somatic pain refers to physical symptoms that have no clear medical explanation but are closely connected to emotional or psychological experiences. These sensations are very real, even when medical tests don't show a cause, and they often serve as the body's language when words fall short. Somatic symptoms can look different for everyone, but common examples include:

  • Chronic headaches or migraines

  • Back, shoulder, or neck tension

  • Digestive issues like bloating, nausea, or IBS

  • Chest tightness or heart palpitations

  • Fatigue, heaviness, or unexplained weakness

What's happening is that your nervous system, shaped by stress, trauma, and emotion, is using the body to communicate something important. It's as if your body is saying, "Pay attention, there's more here than you're seeing."

 

How Mental Health Influences Physical Pain

When we experience chronic stress, anxiety, or unresolved trauma, our bodies don't just shrug it off, they respond in powerful ways. Stress hormones flood the system, muscles tighten, digestion changes, and pain sensitivity increases. Over time, this heightened state becomes the new normal, and physical symptoms often follow.

This happens because the mind and body are deeply connected. They function as one system. When the emotional part of us is overwhelmed, the body often steps in to carry the burden. It's why mental health issues like depression, anxiety, and trauma frequently show up as physical pain. For many people, somatic pain is closely tied to trauma.

The body "remembers" what the mind tries to forget, storing those experiences as tension, gut reactions, or sudden physical sensations when something reminds us of the past. These bodily signals aren't random; they're messages from parts of us that haven't yet had a chance to heal.

 

What the Research Shows About Somatic Pain

The connection between emotional distress and physical pain is well-documented. A study in BMC Psychiatry found that people experiencing high levels of anxiety or depression were up to five times more likely to report significant physical pain without a clear medical cause.

Another extensive review found that about 5–7% of adults meet the criteria for somatic symptom disorder, and many more experience stress-related physical symptoms during their lifetime. These findings confirm what therapists see every day: the body and mind do not operate separately. When one is hurting, the other is almost always involved.

 

Signs You Might Be Experiencing Somatic Pain

It might be time to explore a mind-body connection if you notice any of the following:

  • You have recurring physical pain that medical tests haven't explained.

  • Symptoms get worse during times of stress or emotional upheaval.

  • You feel tense, exhausted, or physically "on edge" much of the time.

  • Body sensations appear to be linked to memories or emotional triggers.

  • The pain seems to move or change without a clear physical cause.Recognizing these patterns isn't about blaming yourself, it's about understanding how your body communicates and learning how to listen more deeply.

 

Healing the Mind-Body Connection

The most important thing to know is this: somatic pain can improve, often significantly. The key is to address not just the physical symptoms but the emotional roots beneath them. With the proper support, your body and mind can begin to work together instead of against each other.

1. Reconnect With Your Body

Many people disconnect from their bodies when pain becomes overwhelming. Somatic therapy helps you rebuild trust, teaching you to notice sensations with curiosity rather than fear. This shift alone can reduce symptom intensity.

 

2. Process Unresolved Emotions

Physical pain often represents emotions that were never processed, such as grief, anger, shame, or fear. Therapy provides a safe space to bring these feelings into awareness, work through them, and free the body from carrying them.

 

3. Calm the Nervous System

Somatic therapies, mindfulness, grounding techniques, and breathwork teach your nervous system how to regulate again. As the body shifts out of chronic fight-or-flight mode, symptoms often become less intense and less frequent.

 

4. Build New Coping Strategies

Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), EMDR, and mindfulness-based interventions can help you reframe your relationship to pain, reduce fear responses, and cultivate skills that prevent stress from turning into physical discomfort.

 

Practical Steps to Support Healing at Home

Even small, daily changes can make a big difference in how your body feels. Try starting with these practices:

  • Body scanning: Spend a few minutes each day simply noticing physical sensations without judgment. Awareness builds connection.

  • Breathwork and grounding: Slow, mindful breathing helps calm the stress response and lower muscle tension.

  • Gentle movement: Activities such as stretching, walking, or yoga release stored tension and enhance body awareness.

  • Tracking patterns: Keep a journal of when symptoms appear and what emotions or events occurred around the same time. You'll often start to see meaningful connections.

  • Compassionate self-talk: Remind yourself that pain is not a sign of weakness, it's communication.

 

 

What to Expect in Somatic Therapy

If you decide to explore therapy for somatic pain, know that the process is gentle, collaborative, and paced to feel safe. Sessions may include:

  • Talking through emotional experiences and how they relate to body sensations

  • Mindfulness exercises to increase body awareness

  • Techniques to regulate the nervous system and build tolerance for sensations

  • Processing trauma or stress memories that may be linked to physical symptoms

You don't have to have all the answers before starting therapy. It's about exploring the story your body is telling and discovering how to support it.

 

Final Thoughts: Healing Is Possible

Your body isn't betraying you when it hurts, it's trying to protect you. Somatic pain is not weakness or exaggeration. It's communication. And when we start to listen with compassion, we can begin to heal not just the pain, but the emotional stories beneath it. If you're living with physical symptoms that don't have a clear cause, therapy can offer a safe space to explore the deeper layers of your experience.


At Mindful Oregon Clinic, we specialize in helping people understand the mind-body connection, process unresolved emotions, and build tools to regulate their nervous system. Together, we can help your body and mind speak the same language, and finally find lasting relief.

 

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